How To Attract Women, Even If You Aren’t Attractive
Many men feel hopeless when it comes to attracting the woman they desire, because they feel ugly.
This simply is not the truth.
Here we can dismiss a few myths concerning attraction, which may be holding you back from a successful love life.
Myth #1 – You must be good looking to attract women.
Look around this world and notice the different types of men, who date beautiful women, you will find this myth is not true.
Of course it is essential to look good, however, it you do not have to be good looking.
How is there a difference?
Well, you can’t help if you’re good looking or not. But you have COMPLETE control over how you present yourself. You control the type of clothes you wear, how you groom yourself, how you wear your hair, how you smell, etc.
Presentations of these types of features play a role in looking good.
Taking control of your appearance makes any man more attractive.
Myth #2 – Women Think Like Men Do
It’s natural to assume that everyone else in the world sees things the same way you see them.
Take for instance that huge pimple on your forehead, you think everyone notices it, although it is beneath the skin and no one knows it is there besides you.
To you, it was clear as day. To everyone else, it was hardly noticeable.
When it comes to appraising other people, this methodology is typically applied. You judge a woman based on how she looks, right? You’re able to size a woman up visually and determine whether or not you find her attractive, correct?
By nature, you think a woman sizes you up in the same manner as you do her.
This is incorrect.
Women have different criteria for determining attraction than men do. That’s not to say they don’t care if a man is attractive or not. But they don’t place as much importance on physical characteristics as us guys do.
Women find attraction by how a man makes them feel, more so than how he may physically appear. This explains their attraction to social status and confidence. Men who make them laugh, are good at what they do attract women. Physical looks has very little to do with whether a woman is attracted to a man.
Myth #3 – Women Notice A Man’s Uncertainty And Insecurity
Keep in mind that we know our own self, better than anyone ever will. We see all our flaws, such as our large noses and ears, a weak chin or receding hairline.
We see it, no matter what it is.
And because we see it, we assume everyone else does too. But the fact is, most people aren’t very observant, and unless they specifically look for something to criticize you about, they’re not going to care about your insecurities, whatever they may be.
Do you know that most women are not aware of your insecurities and only notice them when you call their attention to them? So forget about your insecurities rather than trying to diffuse or dismiss them by calling the attention of others as to why you may think you are ugly.
Besides, insecurity is very unattractive. Think about it.
It’s important, in every situation, that you always focus on the good stuff about you, instead of your shortcomings, and have the positives outshine the negatives.
Myth #4 – Good Looking Guys Have It Easy
That women instinctively generate towards good looking men is one of the most misleading myths out there.
Physical attractiveness may initially assist, however ultimately, good looking men suffer from the same types of problems as other men, while managing their own types of struggles with women they find attractive.
Attraction is the art of magnifying the emotional connection that a woman feels for you, when you are around, this connection will only occur when you are around her, therefore to feel those feelings she will want you to be around her.
When a man matches the physical type of man, a woman prefers she naturally gravitates towards him, simply because those features appeal to her. Those feelings go away if she considers the man to be incompatible, a jerk or a bore.
However, if you take a guy that the woman maybe isn’t initially physically attracted to, and then have him make her experience feelings of fun, excitement, and pleasure – she WILL become attracted to him eventually.
Making others feel good causes them to want to be with you, this is a fundamental of attraction.
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